The Opposite

  of  Settling  

How to Get Everything You Want Out of Love & Life Without Losing Your Spark

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Build a life you love, and love will meet you there.

Ditching the idea of “settling down” and replace it with “settling up.” The Opposite of Settling will leave you feeling lighter, unburdened of rules and expectations, and on the path to finding a relationship where you both look at each other and think “that's my kind of weird.”

In the book you’ll learn to:

  • Navigate the complexities of modern dating with confidence and an unbothered mindset.

  • Find a connection that feels like home yet pushes you toward a fuller and more vibrant life.

  • Recognize and attract relationships that elevate your life instead of weighing or “settling” you down.

  • Let go of fear-based dating habits and find a love that enhances your sense of independence.

  • Build a relationship that empowers you to be independent, vibrant, AND in love.

About Case Kenny

Case Kenny is on a mission to help people live more optimistic, mindful, and authentic lives. Since 2014, he has been writing, speaking, and teaching practical ways to cultivate self-awareness, build confidence, and quiet the overthinking mind. His podcast New Mindset, Who Dis? has resonated with millions of listeners, and his viral writing on Instagram reaches hundreds of millions more.

Through his signature red pen writing on social media, his best-selling journals, and his debut book That’s Bold of You, he encourages people to challenge their self-doubt through actionable mindful practices.

He regularly leads workshops around the world, reminding people that no matter where they are in life, they have the power to rewrite their story and trust that the best is yet to come.